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About Mistress Lux NL

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Mistress Lux a strict Domina who is specialized in BDSM coaching and is well known for her feminization, crossdressing, and sissification sessions.

You may also call her Lady or Milady as she is officially a Lady and has three titles. At the age of 18 Mistress Lux came into contact with the world of BDSM. She lives a 24/7 BDSM lifestyle and has lots of experience in BDSM and with her knowledge of practical psychology, human anatomy, and body language she can safely guide you in your BDSM experience.


Mistress Lux is an internationally published Domme. She is featured on the covers of Kink Queens, Subspace, MassaD and Darkside magazine.

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Fashion Design

Fashion Design: I focus mostly on jewelry, accessories and exclusive fashion, varying from the MTV awards’ red carpet to making a collection for the National Geographic channel and TV programs. At the end of 2021, my runway collection themed ‘feminine dominance’ was shown at Fashion Week in Canada. This collection included a BDSM look with a collar and muzzle, adorned with gemstones and plated with 24k gold and sterling silver details. Featuring cross-dressers and trans women in its runway and photoshoot. Some of the looks were also featured in Vogue.

Right now, am working on a new collection for luxurious Dommes. Ranging from gemstone covered shoes, to glamorous micro satin robes and bra’s adorned with gems, pearls, 14k gold and sterling silver. I am also working on designing the perfect maid dresses and aprons, which will be sold under the ‘Fetish.Works designed by Mistress Lux NL’ label! On the cover of this magazine and in many other pictures, you can see me wearing my own designs.

My BDSM Service

Have you always wanted to be submissive to a classy domme, and would you like to serve her?


Have you always wanted to try a BDSM session? Do you want to be locked up or do you feel you need to be punished? Are you into crossdressing or sissification?  Would you like to experience how it is to be a domestic cleaning submissive or a maid or butler? For this and lots of other ways of domination, you found the right Mistress.


Lux offers personalized coaching packages.

  • Couples coaching, for couples who want to introduce BDSM in their relationship
  • 1 on 1 submissive coaching
  • 1 on 1 crossdress coaching
  • Crossdress coaching for couples

We also provide crossdress coaching without BDSM.


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Session Options

Mistress Lux only does BDSM sessions that she enjoys doing herself, and also enjoys working with her subs and clients in alternative therapeutic ways.

Not everyone will be admitted for a session. It is not possible to book without an intake via email with Mistress Lux.

Mistress Lux is a Dominatrix, lifestyle couple coach, BDSM and Crossdress coach, MtF & FtM make-up artist and stylist and not an escort, so there will be NO sexual acts during a session.

Many of the options below can be combined in one session. If what you're looking for isn't listed in the options below, it probably won't be possible.

A lasting memory of your session? Photography of your submission?

Book professional photoshoot with the session.

Many options are offered during the sessions, below you will find the list.

Crossdressed dining out with Lux & Loren

With this option you will be transformed into a beautiful woman by Lux who is also a gender transformation makeup artist and stylist. Outfits and shoes in your size will be selected. As a woman, you will go out to dinner with Lux and Loren. Exciting, but you are in

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Outside session with photography

Would you like to go out as sub, puppy, crossdressed, pony, sissymaid? This is definitely an option. All options and ideas will be clearly discussed beforehand. Professional photography is included with this option.

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This can be interpreted in many different ways. This can be applied in a session in the form of many combinations from massaging my feet to being human furniture for me, cleaning something for me, getting groceries for me, cooking for me, being a driver for me etc etc. Discuss

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Duo session with Lux & Lori

This is an exclusive session where the submissive will try out many aspects of BDSM. Lori attends the session as Mistress Lux’s assistant. This is a 4 hour session and this session also includes professional photography to have a nice memory of this exclusive session. Price: 1250,-

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Dinner party with Lux & Lori

Are you not looking for a session, but do you want to have dinner with Lux and Lori? This dinner option with Lux and her little bombshell Lori Lavish is a 4 hour option. On this evening you will be welcomed by a GF maid who will take your coat

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B&B/ Become a maid and breakfast (with certificate)

The become a maid & breakfast option is a long training session where you are expected on the first day at 13:00 and leave the next day at 11:00. Short overview: 13:00 Intake continued by transformation to maid 15:00 tea time, then cleaning until 17:00. After cleaning you will cook,

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The bodysuit

The aim of this session which based on ADMT therapy with BDSM twist is to release the sub from daily worries. To let go of oneself and this also completely unrecognizable and experiencing a session or submissive attitude can become easier in the future. A lot of people can’t be

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The Darkbox

A sensory experience locked in complete darkness in a cage. This is possible in combination with a bondage bag. This experience is different for everyone, so one can completely surrender and feels super relaxed. Another individual may find it very exciting and scary. Max length for the darkbox is 190

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BDSM coaching for couples

Are you looking for how to add BDSM to your relationship? Finding the right balance, finding the right game and putting together a training plan, these and many other points are discussed. Individual lessons are possible, but also a 4-week personal coaching plan where a complete agenda is put together.

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My personal Maid for a day

This is a long 6 hour session, 11am-5pm where you will get a discounted price and will be REALLY helpful and obedient and serve me well all day long. If you bore me or if you do not meet my standards in performing a task, you will be punished. Before

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My personal butler for a day

This is a long 6 hour session, 11am-5pm where you will get a discounted price and will be REALLY helpful and obedient and serve me well all day long. If you bore me or fail to meet my standards in performing a task, you will be punished. Before the session,

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Foil Mummification

I love to do foil mummification. You will completely surrender to me by choosing this option. You will not be able to move. The feeling of the shrink plastic all over your body will give you a special sensation. It is also possible to wear a sensory deprivation hood or

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Pain and Impact play

This option is for the masochists, the ones who long for punishment. I can be pretty evil, but I will always listen to your safe word. I will study your body language to see If there are no limits that are crossed. Before an impact play session, we will of

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Do you like a good spanking? Well, I love giving them, it is for sure one of my top fetishes. I work on an hourly base so this option would be good to combine with other options from my list.

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Electro play

I have a medical-grade EMS/Tens machine that I used when I had a beauty salon. This helped people with fibromyalgia and sports injuries. I know exactly where to place the electrodes. During the session I can also use an electronic acupuncture machine, an ultraviolet wand, and my favorite the electric

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Optional with every session you can add a professional photoshoot (by my partner Loren) to create a lasting memory. In case you do not feel comfortable having extra an extra photographer present, another option is that I will take pictures or videos with my phone of the session. Do you

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Birthday session

Would you like a special birthday session? This session will take 3-3,5 hours. There are a few options, the Special Girl birthday option for crossdressers and sissies. The shoe and feet lover birthday of the spankie birthday party for the ones that enjoy pain.

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I do this limited as I feel this is not always the best session option for lots of people. So, before I decide to do a humiliation session with you there must be an intake via email.

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Wax Play

I love wax play. I use candles that are safe for the skin. But please note if you have specific skin conditions this option might not be suitable for you. I work on an hourly base so this option would be best combined with another option from my list.

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For this option, I need to know if there are any medical conditions that I need to keep in mind. Trampling is possible with bare feet or with heels.

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Pet play

Do you want to be my pet? Locked up in a bench. Eat from a bowl, walk around on a leash and listen to your owner? That is possible.

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I can be a sadist for sure. As some of you might know I have a famous evil Lord as an ancestor. I guess it runs in the family hahaha. But I will only punish people who want it and need it and that is the difference. I will always

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Bootcamp / BDSM workout

Do you want to get in better shape but with a BDSM twist? Then join my Bootcamp option! This can be done as a Sissy Bootcamp option or regular, groups or one on one, inside or outside. We will make a custom plan that will work best for you.

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Crossdressing non-bdsm

Transformations and lessons without BDSM: Contact us for more info. MtF & FtM makeover with photoshoot Trans Makeover. Crossdressing & transgender training school Trans Academy, The school of transformation.

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Vacuum bed (latex-free)

I use a latex-free option as many people do not know that they are allergic to latex. Safety first. There may be a waiting period for this session, as the bags are used once and are not always in stock.  

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I offer many sissification options, from the more basic sissification of just wearing a dress and having a session to getting a full makeover as I am a makeup artist and stylist and can make you look the part to do the session. I also have a sissy training option

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I am specialized in gender transformations Male to Female (but also female to male). Crossdressing can take place within a session but I can also teach you about crossdressing for more info contact me about my school.

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Forced Feminization

This is an option for the ones who have the need to be more forced into becoming a woman. I will decide how you will look and what you will wear.

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Sissy Training with Certificate

Do you want to become a proper sissy? And get your own sissy training and get a certificate? You can obtain your sissy certificate in a 4-hour training session. At the session we first start with a short conversation, then I transform you with full make-up, wig and nice outfit

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Financial Domination

My kind of findom is a little different to most others. Every Domme has her own kind of brand and that is good. For me, I will not constantly post and tell you to pay for my lunch, coffee or something. Or telling you to pay a tribute before you

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Sensory Deprivation

This is done by wearing a sensory deprivation hood. This is possible during impact play as you will not know what will happen. This can be done while you are in the body bag or locked up in a cage etc.

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Cupping is an ancient form of alternative medicine in which a therapist places special cups on your skin for several minutes to create suction. People get it for many purposes, including to help with pain, inflammation, blood flow, relaxation and well-being, and as a type of deep tissue massage. The

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B&B Bench, Bodybag, Bondage & Breakfast

This is an overnight session. Arrival: 20:00 Departure 11:00. In the night there will be check-ups to see if everything is ok. You can sleep or in the body bag on an air mattress or in the bench, or with bondage on hands and feet. Before being allowed to book

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Slave or Sub training

We offer many options for this type of training, you can follow a one-time training, or you can follow a course. The course consists of three or four sessions. If I deem you worthy you will get your submissive or slave certificate. If you meet my standards, you could even

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Body bag

I have multiple body bags/bondage bags. I love to use these on people as it is a complete surrender to me when I lock you up. This can be combined with a sensory deprivation hood. If you are taller than 190 cm, let me know beforehand so I can prepare

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Cleaning servant

There are a few options in this category. You can book a separate session and experience this with or without gender transformation. * The other option is if you are really good at cleaning and are looking to serve me this way, then you could be considered to become my

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Caging and Confinement

Want to be locked up? There are multiple options. You can be put in the bench or put in there while wearing a sensory deprivation hood and have your hands locked behind your back etc.

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Foot Fetish or High Heel Fetish

Want to worship my perfect feet? Or heels? You can. My feet are always looked after and my toenails are always painted perfectly, I have shoe size 39. I have about 75 pairs of shoes which most are high-end designers from Manolo to Chanel to Loubs or shoes designed by

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Submissive coaching plan

This is a 4 week personalized coaching plan. This can be aimed at letting you be submissive to your partner who does not want to be further involved in the coaching. Be submissive to me or in general and learn to be good sub. How should you behave as a

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Also visit our other non-BDSM services. – MtF & FtM makeover. 3 looks. With Lux as makeup artist and stylists with a professional photoshoot. – The school of transformation. Custom coaching packages for help with crossdressing or transition. Also for couples.

Clients Reviews

What my clients say about me.

Recently it was my first session ever. Afterwards I regretted not going earlier. You feel familiar and understood with this mistress/lady.

Daan/Destiny Under consideration to become a personal sub of Mistress Lux NL

Experience many sessions with this fantastic Mistress. She has her Dominance naturally. In addition, she has a great personality. She always knows how to create the right atmosphere for a great game. A phenomenal feeling, be careful not to get addicted!

Alex Slave

It was amazing. I learned so much more about myself and what I like. I was very nervous at the beginning.

anonymously Client

For a very long time, I was looking for an address where my wishes regarding crossdressing and a little bit of BDSM could be combined. I finally found this at Mistress Lux! It's great to experience a session at Mistress Lux, but also to see that the work is her passion!

Fabienne Verona Submissive of Mistress Lux NL

After years of struggling with our 'normal' relationship and combining BDSM play, we really looked for help. Via google we came across Mistress Lux and are very grateful for this. The personal plan certainly helped and what a lovely lady.

F & B Client (couple)

Ever since I was very young, there has always been a deep desire to serve a lady. Transformed as a woman to be a dignified servant. I will never forget the moment I stood in front of the mirror. I thought I was so beautiful haha. After that I did all kinds of fun tasks for Milady and I would like to do this again.

Maid Flora Maid

Lux is a very skilled makeup artist who brought me closer to myself in an experience I will never forget.

Elise Sub

I've wanted a sissy workout for quite some time, but everything was so raunchy and sexual online. Mistress Lux was exactly what I was looking for, dignified, elegant, classy but strict.

Frans Sissy

In the distant past I have been to a studio more than once. But I always felt like a number there and it was impersonal. The ladies didn't seem to have a passion for it either. Mistress Lux NL is so different, the passion radiates from it and she also guides more therapeutically, which I experienced as special and very pleasant. Unfortunately I live far away otherwise I would definitely book a session more often.

Joris K Sub

When I saw the beautiful pictures of the various MtF ladies on the website, I knew I had to be here. Mistress Lux and Loren are soul mates for me; I felt right at home and understood. The transformation and the session was wonderfully nice and the photos amazing. I want to experience it way more.

Natasha Talisa Under consideration to become a personal sub of Mistress Lux NL

My day with Lux was unforgettable. She has a gift for acknowledging your inner desires and submitting to exploring them together. She always holds the reins firmly, but elegantly.

Electra_Cute Client

I drove all the way from Germany. It was worth it! I felt so understood and there was no shame. She is an awesome lady who knows what she is doing.

H.L Sub

I was completely new to this world and I had no experience at all. I have a friend who was happy that I booked a session as Mistress doesn't do sexual things. I learned a lot about what BDSM is and tried a lot. I also had the opportunity to ask many questions via email.

Tom Client

Besides that Mistress Lux is a beautiful Mistress, she can be strict but also sweet. Obviously, this isn't just any game for her. She takes the time for you, and will look for a deeper connection with you. She will help you push your limits. Because step by step she takes you to what you want to achieve and then just a little further. My transformation started 4 months ago and now I can't do without her guidance and control.

Lisa Liz Submissive of Mistress Lux NL

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    • Not everybody will be accepted for a session.
    • Note: Mistress Lux NL is a Dominatrix, lifestyle couple coach, MtF & FtM Make-up artist and stylist NOT an escort so there will be NO sexual acts during a session.
    • All the options can be found in the session option list. If it is not on the list it is not possible.
    • Your privacy and the privacy of Mistress Lux are taken very seriously so a contract can be made for privacy reasons.
    • Hygiene is very important and all the items that are used during a session will be sterilized after every session.
    • We follow strict hygiene protocol regarding COVID-19.
    • If you have COVID-19 the session has to be postponed and rescheduled.