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About Mistress Lux NL

Mistress Lux a strict Domina who is specialized in feminization, crossdressing, and also sissification.

You may also call her Lady or Milady as she is officially a Lady and has three titles. At the age of 18 Mistress Lux came into contact with the world of BDSM. She lives a 24/7 BDSM lifestyle and has lots of experience in BDSM and with her knowledge of practical psychology, human anatomy, and body language she can safely guide you in your BDSM experience.


Mistress Lux is an internationally published Domme. She is featured on the covers of Kink Queens, Subspace, MassaD and Darkside magazine.

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Fashion Design

Fashion Design: I focus mostly on jewelry, accessories and exclusive fashion, varying from the MTV awards’ red carpet to making a collection for the National Geographic channel and TV programs. At the end of 2021, my runway collection themed ‘feminine dominance’ was shown at Fashion Week in Canada. This collection included a BDSM look with a collar and muzzle, adorned with gemstones and plated with 24k gold and sterling silver details. Featuring cross-dressers and trans women in its runway and photoshoot. Some of the looks were also featured in Vogue.

Right now, am working on a new collection for luxurious Dommes. Ranging from gemstone covered shoes, to glamorous micro satin robes and bra’s adorned with gems, pearls, 14k gold and sterling silver. I am also working on designing the perfect maid dresses and aprons, which will be sold under the ‘Fetish.Works designed by Mistress Lux NL’ label! On the cover of this magazine and in many other pictures, you can see me wearing my own designs.

My BDSM Service

Have you always wanted to be submissive to a classy domme, and would you like to serve her?


Have you always wanted to try a BDSM session? Do you want to be locked up or do you feel you need to be punished? Are you into crossdressing or sissification?  Would you like to experience how it is to be a domestic slave or my sissy maid?


Lux offers personalized coaching packages.

  • Couples coaching, for couples who want to introduce BDSM in their relationship
  • Coaching for women who want to become dominas
  • 1 on 1 submissive coaching
  • 1 on 1 crossdress coaching
  • Crossdress coaching for couples


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Session Options

Many session options are offered.

Want a lasting memory of your session? Book a professional photo shoot in addition to your session. 

My personal Maid for a day

This is a long 7 hour session. Where you will get a reduced price and will be useful and obedient to me the whole day and serve me well. If you bore me or if you do not meet my standards performing a task then you will be punished. We

Tickle session

A sensory focussed session where I will tickle you till you can’t take it anymore.


There are many bondage options: from body bags to rope bondage, chains, crawler set etc.


Cupping therapy is an ancient form of alternative medicine in which a therapist puts special cups on your skin for a few minutes to create suction. People get it for many purposes, including to help with pain, inflammation, blood flow, relaxation, and well-being, and as a type of deep-tissue massage.

Foil Mummification

I love to do foil mummifications. You will completely surrender to me by choosing this option. You will not be able to move. The feeling of the shrink plastic all over your body will give you a special sensation. It is also possible to wear a sensory deprivation hood or

My personal butler for a day

This is a long 7 hour session, where you will get a reduced price and will be useful and obedient to me the whole day and serve me well. If you bore me or do not meet my standards performing a task then you will be punished. We will talk

Duo options

My partner Loren (GF) is a switch. She likes doing duo sessions with me, so it is possible to book her with your session.

Pain and Impact play

This option is for the masochists, the ones who long for punishment. I can be pretty evil, but I will always listen to your safe word. I will study your body language to see If there are no limits that are crossed. Before an impact play session, we will of


Do you like a good spanking? Well, I love giving them, it is for sure one of my top fetishes. I work on an hourly base so this option would be good to combine with other options from my list.

Electro play

I have a medical-grade EMS/Tens machine that I used when I had a beauty salon. This helped people with fibromyalgia and sports injuries. I know exactly where to place the electrodes. During the session I can also use an electronic acupuncture machine, an ultraviolet wand, and my favorite the electric


Optional with every session you can add a professional photoshoot (by my partner Loren) to create a lasting memory. In case you do not feel comfortable having extra an extra photographer present, another option is that I will take pictures or videos with my phone of the session. Do you

Birthday session

Would you like a special birthday session? This session will take 3-3,5 hours. There are a few options, the Special Girl birthday option for crossdressers and sissies. The shoe and feet lover birthday of the spankie birthday party for the ones that enjoy pain.

Pony play

Would you like to be my pony? Then the pony play option is perfect for you.

Caging and Confinement

Want to be locked up? There are multiple options. You can be put in the bench or put in there while wearing a hood and have your hands locked behind your back etc. Another kind of caging: Chastity for this you can go to my task Onlyfans where you must


I do this limited as I feel this is not always the best session option for lots of people. So, before I decide to do a humiliation session with you there must be an intake via email.

Wax Play

I love wax play. I use candles that are safe for the skin. But please note if you have specific skin conditions this option might not be suitable for you. I work on an hourly base so this option would be best combined with another option from my list.


For this option, I need to know if there are any medical conditions that I need to keep in mind. Trampling is possible with bare feet or with heels.

Human Furniture

Would you like to be a useful object for me? A table that I can eat my diner of? Or a footstool?


I offer many sissification options, from the more basic sissification of just wearing a dress and having a session to getting a full makeover as I am a makeup artist and stylist and can make you look the part to do the session. I also have a sissy training option

Pet play

Do you want to be my pet? Locked up in a bench. Eat from a bowl, walk around on a leash and listen to your owner? That is possible.

Sissy Training

Want to become a proper sissy? And get your own sissy training and certificate? Start your sissy training, and I will turn you into the perfect sissy.

Foot Fetish or High Heel Fetish

Want to worship my perfect feet? Or heels? You can. My feet are always looked after and my toenails are always painted perfectly, I have shoe size 39. I have about 75 pairs of shoes which most are high-end designers from Manolo to Chanel to Loubs for heel lovers there


I can be a sadist for sure. As some of you might know I have a famous evil Lord as an ancestor. I guess it runs in the family hahaha. But I will only punish people who want it and need it and that is the difference. I will always

Bootcamp / BDSM workout

Do you want to get in better shape but with a BDSM twist? Then join my Bootcamp option! This can be done as a Sissy Bootcamp option or regular, groups or one on one, inside or outside. We will make a custom plan that will work best for you.

Crossdressing non-bdsm

Transformations and lessons without BDSM: Contact us for more info. MtF & FtM makeover with photoshoot Trans Makeover. Crossdressing & transgender training school Trans Academy, The school of transformation.

Vacuum bed (latex-free)

I use a latex-free option as many people do not know that they are allergic to latex. Safety first.


I am specialized in gender transformations Male to Female (but also female to male). Crossdressing can take place within a session but I can also teach you about crossdressing for more info contact me about my school.

Forced Feminization

This is an option for the ones who have the need to be more forced into becoming a woman. I will decide how you will look and what you will wear.

Financial Domination

My kind of findom is a little different to most others. Every Domme has her own kind of brand and that is good. For me, I will not constantly post and tell you to pay for my lunch, coffee or something. Or telling you to pay a tribute before you

Sensory Deprivation

This is done by wearing a sensory deprivation hood. This is possible during impact play as you will not know what will happen. This can be done while you are in the body bag or locked up in a cage etc.

B&B Bench, Bodybag, Bondage & Breakfast

This is an overnight session. Arrival: 20:00 Departure 11:00. In the night there will be check-ups to see if everything is ok. You can sleep or in the body bag on an air mattress or in the bench, or with bondage on hands and feet. Before being allowed to book

BDSM coaching

Would you like to become a pro Domme? Or would you like to learn how to dominate your partner? With we also provide website and webhosting for pro Dommes. Photoshoots with styling and makeup are also an option.

Slave or Sub training

We offer many options for this kind of training, you can have one-time training or you can have a course (consistent of three or four sessions) and if you deem worthy, obtain your sub/slave certificate. If you’re up to my standards you might even become my own sub or slave.

Body bag

I have multiple body bags/bondage bags. I love to use these on people as it is a complete surrender to me when I lock you up. This can be combined with a sensory deprivation hood. If you are taller than 190 cm, let me know beforehand so I can prepare

Cleaning servant

Want to be my maid or domestic servant? There are a few options in this category. You can book a session to serve me. Think of making me tea, massaging my feet or neck, making me dinner or doing some house chores for me. If you love to clean and

Also visit our other non-BDSM services. – MtF makeover with a photoshoot – The school for boys who want to be girls

Clients Reviews

What my clients say about me.

My day with Lux was unforgettable. She has a gift for acknowledging your inner desires and submitting to exploring them together. She always holds the reins firmly, but elegantly.

Electra_Cute Client

Experience many sessions with this fantastic Mistress. She has her Dominance naturally. In addition, she has a great personality. She always knows how to create the right atmosphere for a great game. A phenomenal feeling, be careful not to get addicted!

Alex Slave

Lux is a very skilled makeup artist who brought me closer to myself in an experience I will never forget.

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    • Not everybody will be accepted for a session.
    • Note: Mistress Lux NL is a Dominatrix, lifestyle coach, stylist and MtF & FtM Make-up artist and not an escort so there will be no sexual acts during a session.
    • All the options can be found in the session option list. If it is not on the list it is not possible.
    • Your privacy and the privacy of Mistress Lux are taken very seriously so a contract can be made for privacy reasons.
    • Hygiene is very important and all the items that are used during a session will be sterilized after every session.
    • We follow strict hygiene protocol regarding COVID-19.
    • If you have any symptoms the session has to be postponed for 14 days.