BDSM Session Information

I do not allow just anyone to book a session, we will first talk and then I will decide if I allow you to book.

A tribute must be paid for my time, do not contact me if you are not willing to pay. Over the years I invested a lot of time in learning and put thousands of euros in equipment. I am lucky enough to have made a business out of my passion. I love what I do, but this does not mean I will do it for free.

There will be no sexual acts during a session. I am a Lady and a Dominatrix. What you see between me and my girls on my OnlyFans or the Lux Special Girls OnlyFans is not an indication of what you can expect, that is my private life.

Before deciding what kind of session will work for you, we have to check what is possible, for example I need to know if there are any medical conditions that I have to pay attention to during our session. This must be a pleasant experience and safe for us both! Many of the options you see below can be combined. I work on hourly basis, so it’s not possible to book less than one hour.

Often, I will suggest a session that’s at least 2 hours to make sure there is enough time to experience a great session.

Note: Optional with every session you can add a professional photoshoot (by my partner Loren) to create a lasting memory. In case you do not feel comfortable having extra an extra photographer present, another option is that I will take pictures or videos with my phone of the session.

Duo options: I have limited duo option with others: Mistress Maya or CD Mistress Kim. Some of my special girls can be booked for a duo session as well.

My partner Loren (GF) can be a switch. She likes doing duo session with me, so it is possible to book her with every session.

If you have any questions, see my website or contact me.

I was 18 when I started out as a Domme, Over the years I got passionate about practical psychology and body language but also human anatomy so I can safely guide people in their journey to finding themselves while exploring their boundaries. You can always talk to me privately and I will never purposely cross your boundaries.

The sessions take place near Rotterdam in a big and stylish space that is perfectly suited for sessions. The apartment has everything that’s needed for a great playtime from hooks in the ceiling and walls to all the whips and toys I need.


There are many options for this kind of training, you can have one-time training or you can have a course (three or four sessions) and if you deem worthy, obtain your sub/slave certificate. If you’re up to my standards you might even become my own sub or slave.

This option is for the masochists or the ones who long for punishment. I can be pretty evil, but I will always listen to your safe word. I will study your body language to see If there are no limits that are crossed. Before an impact play session, we will of course discuss your limits.

Do you like a good spanking? Well, I love giving them, it is for sure one of my top fetishes. I work on an hourly base so this option would be good to combine with other options from my list.

I have a medical grade EMS/Tens machine that I used when I had a beauty salon. This helped people with fibromyalgia and sports injuries so, I know exactly where to place the electrodes.

During the play I can also use an electronic acupuncture machine, a dog shock collar, ultraviolet wand and my favorite the electric fly swatter. *Zap zap*

I have multiple body bags/bondage bags. I love to use these on people as it is a complete surrender to me when I lock you up. This can be combined with a sensory deprivation hood.

If you are taller than 190 cm, let me know beforehand so I can prepare the larger body bag.

Want to be my maid or domestic servant? There are a few options in this category.

You can book a session to serve me. Think of making me tea, massaging my feet or neck, making me dinner or doing some house chores for me.

If you love to clean and you are good at cleaning, then you might be considered to become my special cleaning sub at a special rate, so you can be useful to me.

This is an overnight option. Arrival: 20:00 Departure 11:00.

In the night there will be checkups to see if everything is ok.

You can sleep or in the bodybag or in the bench.

Before being allowed to book this session you will need to have an intake through mail with me first.

This is a long session option 12:00-19:30 where you will get a reduced price and will be useful and obedient to me the whole day and serve me well. If you bore me or do not meet my standards performing a task then you will be punished. We will talk about punishments and rewards before the session.

This is a long session option 12:00-19:30 where you will get a reduced price and will be useful and obedient to me whole day and serve me well. If you bore me or if you do not meet my standards performing a task then you will be punished. We will talk about punishments and rewards before the session. You will wear a cute maid outfit. It’s also possible that I do your make-up and make you wear a cute wig.

Want to go shopping together and spoil me with gifts? That is possible.

There are many bondage options: from bodybags to rope bondage, chains, crawler set etc.

Want to worship my perfect feet? Or heels? You can.

My feet are always looked after and my toenails are always painted perfectly, I have shoe size 39.

I have about 75 pairs of shoes which most are high end designer from Manolo to Chanel to Loubs for the heel lovers there are lots of options. Want to be covered by a huge number of shoes that is also an option

Want to be locked up? There are multiple options. You can be put in the bench or put in there while wearing a hood and have your hands locked behind your back etc.

Another kind of caging: Chastity for this I have an online platform on my website where you must upload a picture of you being in chastity every day.

I love wax play. I use candles that are safe for the skin. But please note if you have a specific skin conditions this option might not be suitable for you. I work on an hourly base so this option would be best combined with another option from my list.

I do this limited as I feel this is not always the best session option for lots of people.

So, before I decide to do a humiliation session with you there must be an intake via email.

For this option a ‘mean girls’ duo session can be booked.

Cupping therapy is an ancient form of alternative medicine in which a therapist puts special cups on your skin for a few minutes to create suction. People get it for many purposes, including to help with pain, inflammation, blood flow, relaxation and well-being, and as a type of deep-tissue massage. the Ebers Papyrus, describes how the ancient Egyptians used cupping therapy in 1,550 B.C. Cupping became very popular in the BDSM scene as this will leave beautiful marks and is a special experience.

I have actually used it when I had a beauty salon and helped people with fibromyalgia and sports injuries, so I know where to exactly place the cups. I use a modern version of cupping with a rubber pump instead of fire to create the vacuum inside the cup.

I love to do foil mummifications. You will completely surrender to me by choosing this option. You will not be able to move. The feeling of the shrink plastic all over your body will give you a special sensation. It is also possible to wear a sensory deprivation hood or also have you face wrapped (with a hole to breathe of course). Breath play can also be done while lying on my table wrapped up perfectly.

I use a latex free option as many people do not know that they are allergic to latex. Safety first.

Would you like to be a useful object for me? A table that I can eat my diner of? Or a foot stool?

For this option I need to know if there are any medical conditions that I need to keep in mind.

Trampling is possible with bare feet or with heels.

I offer many sissification options, from the more basic sissification of just wearing a dress and having a session to getting a full makeover as I am a makeup artist and stylist and when you look the part to do the session. I also have a sissy training school:

Want to be my perfect little doll or my barbie? You can!

Do you want to be my pet? Locked up in a bench. Eat from a bowl, walk around on a leash and listen to your owner?  That is possible.

I am specialized in gender transformations Male to Female (but also female to male).

Crossdressing can take place within a session but I can also teach you about crossdressing at my Trans Academy:

This is an option for the ones who have the need to be more forced into becoming a woman. I will decide how you will look and what you will wear. Impression:

Want to become a proper sissy? And get your own sissy training and certificate?

See my where I will turn you into the perfect sissy.

I can be a sadist for sure. As some of you might know I have a famous evil Lord as an ancestor. I guess it runs in the family hahaha. But I will only punish people who want it and need it and that is the difference.

I will always listen to your safe word and will never purposely cross any boundaries.

My kind of findom is a little different to others I will not beg for you to pay my lunch or something. I have my own money. But if you want to make my life even more luxurious and if you want to show your admiration and servitude, we can come up with a plan that you will send me at least a specific amount a month or buy me at least a specific number of gifts. I have a shop on my website where you can buy me gifts, flower, dinner or tips. You can be useful to me and make me happy, like a good sub should. This is a good option for the ones who cannot please me in real life because you live abroad.

I do this limited during session.

This is done by wearing a sensory deprivation hood.

This is possible during impact play as you will not know what will happen. Or this can be done while you are in the body bag or locked up in a cage etc.

Duo sessions with my partner @loren88 (or other mistress or one of the special girls)

MtF & FtM makeover with photoshoot

Crossdressing training school for boys who want to be girls